Dog Anxiety: Types, Signs and Calming Strategies

Anxiety in dogs is far more common than most owners realise. The panting, pacing, and clingy behaviour that looks like a quirky personality trait is often a dog struggling to cope with stress. Left unaddressed, anxiety affects everything from the dog’s health to the household’s quality of life.

The challenge is that dogs cannot tell you they are anxious. They show it through body language and behaviour changes that are easy to miss or misread. A dog that destroys the blinds while you are at work is not being naughty. A dog that trembles during a thunderstorm is not being dramatic. Both are displaying genuine distress, and both deserve a plan.

Dog anxiety falls into three main types: separation anxiety, noise phobia, and generalised or situational fear. Signs include panting, pacing, trembling, destructive behaviour, toileting indoors, excessive licking, and avoidance. Calming strategies include creating a safe space, increasing exercise and enrichment, desensitisation training, pheromone products like Adaptil, and in moderate to severe cases, medication prescribed by a vet. Early intervention produces the best results.

Anxiety is an emotional state of apprehension or unease about something that might happen. It is different from fear, which is a response to something happening right now. A dog that panics at the sound of thunder is experiencing fear. A dog that starts pacing and drooling the moment the sky darkens, before any thunder has occurred, is experiencing anxiety. The dog has learned to associate the cues (dark sky, wind, pressure change) with the scary event that follows.

Some level of anxiety is normal and healthy. It keeps dogs alert and helps them avoid genuine danger. But when the response becomes disproportionate to the threat, or when it happens so frequently that the dog cannot relax, it crosses into a welfare concern. Chronic anxiety can lower immune function, disrupt digestion, and contribute to skin conditions and inflammatory issues over time.

Separation Anxiety

Dogs with separation anxiety become distressed when left alone or separated from the person they are most bonded to. The behaviour typically starts within minutes of the owner leaving and may include barking, howling, destructive chewing (especially around doors and windows), pacing, drooling, and toileting indoors despite being fully house-trained.

This is not boredom. A bored dog might chew a shoe. A dog with separation anxiety will rip a door frame apart trying to escape. The destruction is frantic, focused, and often accompanied by signs of genuine panic. In Australia, where many households returned to office-based work after extended periods of working from home during lockdowns, separation anxiety has become one of the most common behaviour concerns vets and trainers see.

Separation anxiety can affect any breed, but rescue dogs and dogs that have been rehomed multiple times seem to be at higher risk. Dogs that were adopted during the lockdown years and then suddenly left alone for eight-hour stretches are particularly vulnerable.

Noise Phobia

Noise phobia is an extreme fear response triggered by loud or sudden sounds. Thunderstorms and fireworks are the most common triggers, but some dogs also react to construction noise, gunshots, car backfires, or even household appliances. Roughly half of all dogs show a significant fear response to firework noise, and the problem tends to get worse with repeated exposure rather than better.

In Australia, storm season (typically October through March in the eastern states) and New Year’s Eve fireworks are peak risk periods. Dogs with storm phobia often pick up on environmental cues well before the first crack of thunder: changes in barometric pressure, darkening skies, the smell of rain, or a shift in wind. By the time the storm hits, the dog is already deep into a stress response.

A Groodle named Frankie, living in suburban Brisbane, would start panting and hiding under the bed a full hour before any storm arrived. By the time the thunder started, Frankie was scratching at the bathroom door hard enough to strip the paint. The owner only realised the connection after a neighbour mentioned seeing Frankie’s pre-storm behaviour through the window.

Generalised and Situational Anxiety

Some dogs are anxious in specific situations: car rides, vet visits, busy public spaces, or encounters with unfamiliar people or dogs. Others seem anxious much of the time, startling easily, having difficulty settling, and showing a generally cautious or nervous demeanour across a range of settings.

Generalised anxiety in dogs is often linked to genetics, poor early socialisation, or a history of traumatic experiences. Breed tendencies play a role too. Working breeds like Australian Kelpies and Border Collies that do not receive enough mental and physical stimulation may develop anxiety-related behaviours, though any breed can be affected. Senior dogs can also develop anxiety as cognitive function declines, similar to the confusion and disorientation seen in the early stages of dementia in humans.

Dogs communicate stress through body language and behaviour changes. The signs can be subtle, and many owners miss them until the anxiety has been building for months. Learning to read these cues early makes intervention far more effective.

Body Language Cues

A relaxed dog typically has a soft, open mouth, ears in a neutral or forward position, a loose body, and weight distributed evenly across all four paws. An anxious dog looks different. Watch for: ears pinned flat or rotated back, a tightly closed mouth with tense lips, wide eyes showing the whites (sometimes called “whale eye”), a low or tucked tail, a body that shifts weight to the back legs as if ready to retreat, and a generally rigid posture.

Yawning, lip licking, and turning the head away are displacement behaviours that dogs use when they are uncomfortable. A dog that yawns repeatedly in a situation that is not boring is signalling stress. Excessive panting when the dog is not hot or has not been exercising is another red flag.

Behavioural Signs

Pacing and restlessness. A dog that cannot settle, walks in circles, or moves from room to room without purpose is often anxious. This is especially noticeable before storms or when the dog senses a departure routine (keys, shoes, bag).

Destructive behaviour. Chewing, scratching, and digging targeted at exit points like doors, windows, and gates strongly suggest separation anxiety. Generalised destructive behaviour spread around the house is more likely boredom.

Excessive barking or howling. Vocalisation that begins when the owner leaves or when a trigger appears (storm, fireworks, unfamiliar person) and continues at a high intensity is a common anxiety sign.

Toileting indoors. A house-trained dog that urinates or defecates inside when left alone is not being spiteful. This is a physiological response to stress. The dog’s body is in fight-or-flight mode, and bladder and bowel control is compromised.

Excessive licking or self-grooming. Dogs sometimes soothe themselves by licking their paws, flanks, or lips repetitively. Over time, this can cause “lick granulomas,” raw patches that are visible signs of chronic stress.

Hiding, avoidance, or clinginess. Some anxious dogs retreat to dark, enclosed spaces. Others do the opposite: they shadow the owner constantly, unable to be more than a metre away without becoming distressed. Both patterns point to anxiety.

There is no single fix for dog anxiety. The most effective approach layers multiple strategies together and adjusts based on the type and severity of the anxiety. Here is a practical plan.

  1. Create a safe space. Every anxious dog benefits from having a designated retreat: a quiet, low-traffic area of the house where the dog can go when feeling overwhelmed. This might be a crate with the door left open, a corner with a comfortable bed and a blanket, or a room away from windows. During storms, close blinds, turn on background music or white noise, and let the dog access the safe space freely. Never force the dog into the space or close them in against their will.
  2. Increase daily exercise and enrichment. Physical activity reduces cortisol (the stress hormone) and promotes the release of endorphins. Most adult dogs need at least thirty to sixty minutes of exercise daily, though high-energy breeds often need more. Mental enrichment matters just as much: puzzle feeders like the Kong Wobbler or West Paw Toppl, snuffle mats, scatter feeding, and short training sessions all help burn off anxious energy. A dog that is physically tired and mentally satisfied is calmer across the board.
  3. Build predictability into the routine. Anxious dogs do better when they know what is coming next. Feeding at the same times, walking the same general route, and keeping departure and arrival routines low-key reduces the unpredictability that feeds anxiety. For dogs with separation anxiety, keeping departures calm and unremarkable is especially helpful. Skip the long, emotional goodbye. Pick up the keys, walk out, and keep it matter-of-fact.
  4. Use desensitisation and counter-conditioning. For specific triggers (storms, fireworks, being left alone, car rides), desensitisation gradually exposes the dog to a low-intensity version of the trigger while counter-conditioning pairs the trigger with something positive like high-value treats. For noise phobia, this might mean playing recorded storm sounds at a barely audible volume while feeding the dog diced chicken. The volume is increased only when the dog remains relaxed at the current level. This process takes weeks to months and should never be rushed. If the dog shows signs of stress, the intensity is too high.
  5. Try calming pheromone products. Adaptil is a synthetic version of the pheromone mother dogs release when nursing, and it can help some dogs feel more settled. Available in Australia as a diffuser, collar, or spray, Adaptil is not a cure but can be a useful layer in the overall plan. Plug the diffuser in near the dog’s safe space or spray the bedding before a known trigger. Results vary between dogs, but the product is low-risk and worth trying.
  6. Consider calming supplements. Products like Zylkene (which contains a milk protein called alpha-casozepine) and supplements containing L-theanine are available over the counter in Australia and may help take the edge off mild anxiety. These are not replacements for behaviour modification, but they can support the training process. Always check with the vet before starting any supplement, particularly if the dog is on other medication.
  7. Explore anxiety wraps. ThunderShirts and similar pressure wraps apply gentle, constant pressure around the dog’s torso. The principle is similar to swaddling a baby. Evidence is mixed, but many owners report noticeable improvement, particularly during storms and fireworks. One study found that roughly 70% of owners reported some degree of improvement in storm-phobic dogs after the fourth use of a pressure-based wrap. It is a low-cost, low-risk option worth trying alongside other strategies.

Medication is not a last resort or a sign of failure. For dogs with moderate to severe anxiety, medication can be the difference between a dog that is too overwhelmed to learn and a dog that can engage with the training plan. The Australian Veterinary Association supports reward-based behaviour modification, and medication is a legitimate tool within that framework.

There are two broad categories of anxiety medication for dogs. Daily medications like fluoxetine or clomipramine are used for dogs with chronic or generalised anxiety, including separation anxiety. These take several weeks to reach full effect and are prescribed alongside a behaviour modification plan. Situational medications like trazodone or gabapentin are used for predictable events like storms, fireworks, or vet visits. These are given thirty to sixty minutes before the anticipated trigger.

Medication should always be prescribed by a vet, ideally one with an interest in behaviour or a veterinary behaviourist. Never use human anti-anxiety medication on a dog without veterinary guidance. Dosages, drug interactions, and side effects differ significantly between species.

  1. Prepare the safe space in advance. Set up the den area before storm season begins so the dog is already comfortable using it. An interior room, away from windows, with the dog’s bed, a blanket, and a long-lasting chew item works well. Cover crates with a heavy blanket to muffle sound and block lightning flashes.
  2. Monitor weather forecasts. Check the Bureau of Meteorology app or website for storm warnings. If a storm is predicted, bring the dog inside well before it arrives, close blinds, turn on background music (classical or reggae have shown calming effects in kennel studies), and set up the safe space with a frozen Kong or similar distraction.
  3. Check fences and gates. Panicked dogs can clear fences, squeeze through gaps, or dig under barriers they would never normally attempt. Before storm season, walk the perimeter and repair any weak points. Microchip details should be up to date. Council registration tags should be on the collar.
  4. Use the Adaptil diffuser and a ThunderShirt together. Layering a pheromone diffuser in the safe space with a pressure wrap on the dog gives two forms of passive calming support. Neither alone is a silver bullet, but the combination can reduce the overall stress level enough that the dog copes better.
  5. Talk to the vet about situational medication. For dogs with severe storm phobia, a fast-acting medication given before the storm hits can prevent the full panic response from developing. This needs to be organised with the vet before storm season, not in the middle of a crisis. The medication needs time to absorb before the noise starts.

The best time to address anxiety is before it develops. Puppies between three and fourteen weeks of age are in a critical socialisation period where positive exposure to a wide range of experiences builds confidence and resilience. The Australian Veterinary Association recommends positive-exposure socialisation during this window, with care taken to avoid overwhelming the puppy.

Introduce the puppy to different surfaces, sounds, people, dogs, environments, and handling experiences. Keep each exposure short, positive, and paired with treats or play. A puppy that hears recorded thunder at a low volume while eating a meal is building a positive association. A puppy that is forced into a noisy environment and left to cope is building a fear memory.

Practise short absences from day one. Leave the puppy alone in a safe area with a stuffed Kong for five minutes, then ten, then twenty. Gradually extend the duration. The puppy learns that being alone is safe and that the owner always comes back. This is the single most effective way to prevent separation anxiety later.


When to Get Professional Help

If the anxiety is moderate to severe, if the dog is injuring itself trying to escape, if the behaviour is worsening despite consistent management, or if the anxiety is affecting the dog’s appetite, sleep, or general wellbeing, professional help is the next step.

In Australia, veterinary behaviourists are vets with additional specialisation in animal behaviour. They can diagnose, prescribe medication, and design a detailed behaviour modification plan. A referral from the regular vet is the usual pathway. The Australian and New Zealand College of Veterinary Scientists (ANZCVS) maintains a register of behaviour specialists.

Qualified force-free trainers can also help with mild to moderate anxiety. Look for members of the Pet Professional Guild Australia (PPGA) or trainers with formal qualifications in animal behaviour. Avoid anyone recommending flooding, dominance-based methods, or aversive tools. These approaches are likely to increase anxiety, not reduce it.

An initial behaviour consultation typically costs between $150 and $350 AUD, depending on the practitioner and whether it is a vet behaviourist or a qualified trainer. For complex anxiety cases, multiple follow-up sessions over weeks or months are usually needed. The cost is worth measuring against the toll anxiety takes on the dog’s health, the household’s stress levels, and the ongoing expense of replacing damaged property.


Can dog anxiety be cured?

Anxiety is a condition that can be managed very effectively, but it is rarely “cured” in the sense that the dog will never feel anxious again. With a combination of behaviour modification, environmental management, and sometimes medication, most dogs can learn to cope with their triggers and live a happy, relaxed life. The goal is to reduce the frequency and intensity of anxiety episodes to a level that does not impact the dog’s welfare.

Should I comfort my dog during a storm?

Yes, you can comfort your dog. The old advice to ignore a fearful dog to avoid “reinforcing the fear” is outdated. Fear and anxiety are not behaviours that are reinforced by attention; they are emotional states. Providing calm, gentle reassurance can help your dog feel safer. The key is to stay calm yourself. If you are anxious, your dog will pick up on that. Speak in a soothing tone, offer gentle petting if the dog seeks it, and help them access their safe space.

Does Adaptil actually work?

Adaptil works for many dogs, but not all. Studies show it can help reduce signs of stress in situations like thunderstorms, fireworks, and separation. It is not a magic solution and works best when combined with other strategies like a safe space and behaviour modification. Think of it as a supportive tool that can help lower the dog’s overall stress baseline, making other interventions more effective.

My dog is only anxious at the vet. Is that normal?

Yes, vet anxiety is extremely common. The vet clinic is full of unfamiliar smells, sounds, people, and past experiences that may have been uncomfortable (like vaccinations). This is a form of situational anxiety. You can help by making positive associations: visit the clinic just for treats and pats, ask the vet to do exams on the floor if possible, and use high-value treats during the visit. For severe cases, talk to your vet about pre-visit medication.

Can anxiety in dogs get worse with age?

Yes, anxiety can worsen with age. Senior dogs may develop cognitive dysfunction syndrome (similar to dementia), which can cause confusion, disorientation, and increased anxiety, especially at night. Hearing and vision loss can also make the world more unpredictable and frightening. If an older dog’s anxiety seems to be increasing, a veterinary check-up is essential to rule out pain or medical causes and to discuss management options.

Australian Veterinary Association, “The Use of Punishment and Negative Reinforcement in Dog Training” — https://www.ava.com.au/policy-advocacy/policies/companion-animals-dog-behaviour/the-use-of-punishment-and-negative-reinforcement-in-dog-training/ — reward-based methods as the preferred approach, welfare risks of aversive techniques

Australian Veterinary Association, “Puppy and Kitten Socialisation and Habituation” — https://www.ava.com.au/policy-advocacy/policies/companion-animals-dog-behaviour/puppy-and-kitten-socialisation-and-habituation/ — critical socialisation period (3–16 weeks), positive exposure guidelines, prevention of fear-based behaviours

Tufts University Cummings School of Veterinary Medicine, “Anxiety in Dogs” — https://vet.tufts.edu/news-events/news/anxiety-dogs — warning signs, chronic anxiety health effects, prevention strategies for puppies and adult dogs

VCA Animal Hospitals, “Signs Your Dog Is Stressed and How to Relieve It” — https://vcahospitals.com/know-your-pet/signs-your-dog-is-stressed-and-how-to-relieve-it — body language indicators, displacement behaviours, stress relief through exercise and safe spaces

Vetwest Veterinary Clinics, “Helping Your Dog with Storm Phobia” — https://www.vetwest.com.au/pet-library/helping-your-dog-with-storm-phobia/ — counter-conditioning protocol for storm anxiety, relaxation training, anti-anxiety medication overview

Leave a comment